Shoots higher than 120?

It’s not easy to dump your fierce like how you make it with a waste in the corner of your house. That too when you bog down with the acts of your dear ones, which you don’t like to have! It’s very obvious to stumble upon number of skirmishes within your clans on a day to day life. Often it ends with little fumes but more habitually you will be back to normal very soon. But sometimes this altercate continues irrespective of the plea’s run down and also sometimes it may not be expressed explicitly to avoid hurt their dear loves. Most of the time, the dispute that stands for days turned out to be a good patch with enough adore for a long run relations but also it turned out to be a bad paste sometimes.

There are many reasons in the wake of fierce for others but their root cause and relation with the counterpart decide upon the intensity of this fierce developed. Sometimes there can also be a tortuous move towards this utterly formed rage which purely lies on relational sentiments. In most of the circumstance, we use to express our anguish towards our loved ones to stress and take advantage of the rights that we have towards them. But this sometimes returns back in biased effect with a memo of over doing our act and misusing the vantage that we have for them; this happens when both are not in par with same frequency and have unhinged love between them. The person to whom we evince our goodness and sacrifice our presence may not necessary repeat the same and this is where we flow down with stress in the relation. This eventually rides our mind with fierce toll irrespective of the situation of the victim.

Perspective thinking plays an important role in our life to decide the need towards the forfeiture of our stress towards them. If there shacks an unfeigned love among them with a tranquil frequency, this special role plays with both the individuals just like that in a free flow and thereby it avoids, picture running towards bifurcation.

I’m void of time now. Will catch you all later, on the same piece!

Cuddling with mad philosophy?

I wonder many times on how people stick to their internal mad belief with no regrets. For some, life goes more beautiful than they expect and for some, nothing works even with their worst case hope. But in most of our lives, we often feel that “Oh… what the hell is this? Why it always happens to me?”!

Everyone has their own presumption, trust, value towards others holding their own prejudice (as in most cases) that what they think is true and to be followed. It’s too hard to knuckle down and free rein the base of one’s own thought and action. But in reality, every problem should have a solution which doesn’t necessary to be in favor of us. No puzzle can breathe for a longer age unless it is carried by our thoughts and emotional decision.

Sometime the fierce question ‘why do we have to decide when its not gonna solve with fruitful result in either possible case?’ may rise in succession to your unseasoned setback.

But I would always wrap in a question to answer this ‘Are you gonna sail under the false colors forever?’ If you could answer the above one, it’s painless to sit with the first question and recoup it!

The comfort shall resides under your vision when it initially holds you but never misinterpret and cruise with if it’s gonna shatter you like a batter later. It’s too hard to sense or predict the future hurdles that might drive you crazy where we fall in as a prey. When déjà vu can never be possible, our mind enters the nameless jeopardy where we are boozed with the short lived anesthesia! When you wake up, its already time and it reminds you to come out of the paradise you live in.

Paradox is the only prudent word that might strike at last, when all our constructive phase begins to thaw just as like a fresh butter placed on a hot pan. This holds true for many where every night remains a challenge to row with our shallow deep wet pillows.

‘No one can feel your pain unless they live in your shoes’ always hold true for each one of us when we are beckoned to decide with the one that we never imagined!

All I’m trying to invade here is ‘You can never regain your strength unless you step out of your philosophical mind directed play’. But keep in mind that it can never soothe us without a loss incurred.

To be or not to be…

To be or not to be

All my post looks batty most of the time, as these titles never matched or stated what I really wanted to (As if the content makes a difference!). But still I swim half handed only for a filthy reason which I guess I knew it.

 It’s been a while since I posted my blog. Even though it doesn’t gonna make a big difference or any downbeat cronyism would happen to this world if there aren’t any new post updated here, but then I just wanted to keep it alive at least for the sake of my own unknown reason.

-Stay tuned,,,,

Ditch your dream

Most of us don’t realize the reality until something happens to prove our credence wrong. Everyone’s subconscious repeats and murmur a constant note of our most desired life trail. If you see the bifurcation between your dream and the present, then you start on to feel and believe that you are sailing on a sick note. But remember, this sickness is the reality and has to be charged down and revive our presumption to feel the relief. Most of us never try to experiment it to revive our consciousness which make us fail to realize what life is.

Considering and welcoming the fate will makes one’s life more beautiful than their desired one for sure! Rolling down the breezy frames of your jazzy rhythmic desires around you when you feel all alone is the time that you loose yourself. If you start cultivating and give them the freedom of loitering in your heart, then believe me that no one can shut it down until you freeze and restart yourself.

Usually while listening back the yesteryear dreams of yours; it often brings up the wetness on your cheek for all the ones regardless of those outcomes. And the daydream that flashes your desired future will more or less thunders you with a jerk in your mind & in more particular your heart (Is that not true?)! In either way it usually tries to futz around and makes you crazy!

As an advisable note, stop your personalized relational dreams, to overcome and take control of your unsolicited present & future dream of your real life. Hope if you have the continuing dream of what I quoted to stop then definitely you may have to set a dream which you never dreamt of; as you don’t have a ritual present/future dreams to go with! Fine let me stop with this tags of dreams….

All I wanted to pin here is its better that you get used to the reality than being in your dreamy world all alone! It doesn’t help not only you but rather everyone around you…

Blue hearts

This is my first post in this year 2011. Being the first one, every blogger usually covet and press in with more interesting post but to be sorry I continue with this sick note again.

A very serious and tristful illness that interferes in everyone’s life is depression. Even though I have drawn a similar post earlier, this time I thought of pressing the possible ways for being chary towards the depressive feel and keep smiling everyday! (Read Depressed)

Everyone kvetch and walks through this depression when they feel gloomy or blue which usually continues for a week or even a month or so. This not only affects your day to day life but also it affects the one who takes care of you. It’s a vulnerable pain for the person who is in this disorder and a stressed pain for the one who takes care of him/her. So, this shouldn’t be left as such as this may create a void space which will haunt with more butchery pains. It’s a matter of easy go for the one who is ready to solve it but it won’t be for the one who don’t even ready to think of it. A subtle & rational thinker won’t find it as a big challenge to handle this but for the others it does matters. Some even stilted and mull over that they have this disorder as like “it’s an important characteristic that one should possess”. Before I move further, let me give you some info on this disorder.

Symptoms:

1. Loss of interest in day-to-day activities.
2. Feelings of guilt or low self-esteem.
3. Disturbed sleep
4. Irregular eating pattern
5. Prolonged feeling of fatigue
6. Poor concentration/memory
7. Negative thoughts/ being pessimistic
8. Narrow minded
9. No hope on life
10. ‘I wont be happy’ feel
11. Refuse to switch your thoughts

Risk factors:

1. Unhappy relationships
2. Financial problems
3. Difficult work atmosphere
4. Bereavement
5. Likeness towards loneliness
6. Unwelcome lifestyle
7. Being adamant with your mindset

Remedy:

1. Counseling / Seek medical treatment (Don’t feel bad of this! Because, this not only helps you but rather it helps everyone around you.)
2. Join meditation group/laughter club/Gym
3. Make it a daily practice to do something that will make you happy
4. Think of a choice/move forward to have your hope on a choice
5. Keep yourself busy by some means
6. Stay in touch with all your friends
7. Make a surprise/sudden plan everyday (make be a movie/shopping/visiting a new place)
8. Keep saying all is well!

And the best practice would be “Always be ready to face the change / create a way for a change”, “Accept the change” and “Keep enjoying the change”! These are the mantras that I would suggest for anyone who are suffering from this hell.

I would like to share a small story which I read a few days back. A boy in an auditorium suddenly cracks a joke at the play that is screening. Most of them who heard it, laughed to the core. But this boy doesn’t stops with it. He again cracked the same joke in the same way that he did before. Now a little lesser people laughed at it. In addition, a petite time later, he beams the same joke again for the third time. Now this time, no one around him laughed at it (I said you na, it’s a small story… ). Point to be taken is, when the people cannot enjoy/laugh for the same joke again & again why do they cuddle with the same sad stories again and again? (Think again!)

If something gives you pain, just try to wash it out by any means and move away. If it’s a mistake and a matter of guilt, you can just try to ignore it because it’s not only you who did this but rather the whole world is doing the same. To bring a positive pull on this, don’t try to replicate this mistake again and that’s highly enough to root out your guilt. One good thing that you can do for yourself and for others around you is to forget the painful past (if any) along with the guilt (if any!), which I think one can make it with above stated practices (Don’t be cozen with this!). Also if you are being avoided by someone, then raise your self esteem and be the first person to avoid them. This helps and fuels your confidence. (Read Self respect)

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. So, don’t lug yourself with the stink so called ‘nothing’, rather be ready to draw the change!

Even towards the end, what I like to stress is “Don’t take your life so serious, as no one else does! And always think that the best is yet to come!”

Keep smiling and be the reason behind others smiles! You will feel the change…

PS: Inspiration from TOI with added contents & modifications as required, wrt my style of writing! All your comments are welcome… Thanks!

 

2010 in review

A very happy new year all! I am very glad to post my blog stat for 2010 which reached a decent score than I expected, even though I didn’t crunched many last year!!!

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads This blog is doing awesome!.

Crunchy numbers

A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 2,500 times in 2010. That’s about 6 full 747s.

In 2010, there were 10 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 60 posts. There were 21 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 951kb. That’s about 2 pictures per month.

The busiest day of the year was July 2nd with 71 views. The most popular post that day was My Corby.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were alphainventions.com, en.wordpress.com, coolslate.blogspot.com, stumbleupon.com, and google.co.in.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

1

My Corby July 2010
1 Like on WordPress.com,

2

Ghajini turns hotter in Hindi November 2008
1 comment

3

Shoots higher than 120? June 2010

4

Rehna Tu November 2009
1 comment

5

Residues left unattended August 2010

Shorter agog can kill its successive longer one?

It’s true that everyone likes to ride in the ferry of happiness all along their way. Creating such opportunities is a challenging trail on the day to day life. Reluctantly some used to be like a careless stance that they never listen or force their mind to mesh with happiness, in-lieu they just slide on the way, the life takes them. But some hoi polloi try to make use of the current stream as their own and ride in, till it evaporates. Here I concentrate on the later note about the people who wish to enjoy the present rather than visualizing the aftermath of the same!

Let it go, as long as it goes! This might looks like an optimistic speech and way to go. But nothing can stand as long as one thinks and it get its shorter span with our sense to realize the pip that we made during the choice. Choice is an interesting catalyst to begin our intimate play in the courtyard of life. If you choose wisely with the choices you have, you can lead a better probity life but does everyone do it? Interestingly the shorter span choice tempts us to choose it with no second thoughts. More and more you take such subsequent resultant choice, more complex your life is and ineffably one fine day, you wont have choice to pick rather you are forced to pick with your destined!

Blessing in disguise is the very apt quote for the quaint choice that we prefer sometimes. Rather regretting at the later stage, think before you act is the only choice you can think of, to make a better living. It’s not possible to plan all the way you go but try considering the one that would help you better. Trenchantly sometimes, one may not even know that they had a choice when they tried to solve their puzzle. But when you have one more, think again!

In laconic, the shorter bliss can dine you with comfort now but remember whether this choice can feed you on the long run!

Bizarreness struck again

This is yet again an uncanny showcase of my thoughts and I am wretched to post such précis but I’m sorry that I don’t find any other alternative to express it!

Time glues as a healer sometime but it doesn’t happen always and it’s odd to command to do so. As the famous saying ‘Humans are the beautiful creations in this world’ (please don’t move to the next phrase as I am not into that subject!), it made me to think of it whenever I am over the edge of, inclusive weird happenings of my own self. The way I feel the way I listen and the way I retort are something unique and please don’t flinch back as I know it’s unique for everyone. So what I am trying to say? The customizations of ones own self wrt the nature and our generation is the crucial matter of wisdom to consider. And I wonder how this happens in a non menial way with the nature being fluxed in a smooth fashion, even before we sense it. The procedure to make this adaptable may be of short duration but it takes much of our lifetime to realize what and how it happened. The ritz of our much sophisticated life often makes us to forget the instant of our life style and our degenerated mindset for loosing identity.

If this sustain, it takes us to bag the emptiness with nothing to ponder even inside our reflex action. And this is how I am now, trying hard to get out with possible respite. Generally this takes place in tandem with the unexpected trials bombing at us. And when this happens, we might need some sort of distinct steps to follow which is none other than realization of what is happening. When you drive home with these schooling thoughts of what you are and how this can happen, viola! It’s done…

Fine buddies, it’s again the time! Please let me have your comments or rating if any!